Guest Posts

Table Mountain Mother City Gay Life — Where do I start talking about finding love? Yet alone in one of the most vibrant and culturally rich cities in Africa? Coming from a much smaller place - Durban, where everyone is laid back and always seem to be on a "Go Slow", I have found the transition to be rather difficult.

Finding Love in the Mother City

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Gay relationships Love on March 22, 2015

Suicide letter

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Suicide transsexual on March 18, 2015

Bisexual dormatory — A boy is in a dormitory, but his classmates do not know that he is bisexual. He tries to hide his sexuality, but another guy is hitting on him. What should he do?

Bisexual boy is confused in his dormatory

This entry was posted in Guest Posts on March 4, 2015

Finding love - online dating — As gay people, we are all at different stages of coming out & acceptance. This makes finding love difficult, as many guys are not giving us what we want. I have read and heard of many people saying: "I am a good-looking guy and quite laid-back. Why is finding love so hard? Why is it so hard for me to find love?" Or the usual, “I got into one of those dating sites and was excited about the prospects of meeting someone. But all I got were guys who were looking for sex, sex, sex and sex disguised as 'love'. Am I missing something?”

The difficulty of finding love in a gay life

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Dating Loneliness Love on January 31, 2015

For all my life as far as I could remember, I have grown up with a clear conscious of my sexuality. I fairly and peacefully played with girls around my neighbourhood. Though there were some dudes who would tease me from school, it didn't bother me much. I didn't have a problem with my sexuality, I loved guys, enjoyed the ongoing bouncing of crushes I had from one guy to another round the school and on TV sometimes. It was cool, but then came a change...

Religious woman makes a gay boy confused

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Confused Religion on January 4, 2015

Stars in the sky — A story about a 23 year old gay guy who comes from a conservative family where homosexuality is not accepted. He finds it hard to accept himself. He describes himself as "a lost star in the sky of life".

Confused about sexuality: a star lost in sky of life

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Confused Sexuality on December 22, 2014

African village hut — A gay guy is raised in a traditional African culture, and he tells of his life in a homophobic society. He has recently come out to his family.

Just a guy looking for another. Any hope for me?

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Coming out Gay relationships Love on December 11, 2014

Picture with guy not knowing what to do — Here is what one of my readers wrote... I was married for 4 years and have an 18 year old daughter. I came out at 30 when I met an amazing guy. We have been together now for almost 18 years and the relationship has started to become, well... sort of boring.

Confused gay boy

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Cheating Confused Relationships Religion on December 11, 2014

A guest post from a reader: A gay guy who comes from a family where homosexuality is forbidden, raised only by his mum, aunties and a grandma, causing an effeminate mannerism.

My other side – an effeminate gay man

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Love My Inner Truth on May 6, 2014

This is from one of my readers: I came out to my close friends not so long ago, and although they did not understand it at first, they have been supportive and even set me up on dates.

I have not yet come out to my family

This entry was posted in Guest Posts and tagged Coming out Family Parents on August 24, 2013